Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Reassessing The Goals

It's the end of the month!  Already!

Looking back, I know that there was a lot accomplished.  We got a bunch done in the house buying process, I did a few things here around the apartment that needed some doing (but nothing big - things like getting a legit cleaning arsenal put together, buying up some wire baskets to organize our mini pharmacy and other random but useful items, getting supplies together to make Hadrian a cool hardware "busy board" --but we're waiting until we buy a drill to actually make it--, stuff like that).

But, there were a few things that didn't get done.  Like, at all!

For example, that ESRI server problem is still blocking me from Arc.  I wish I could say (I don't wish this, but I kind of do?) that the reason is because of some mysterious technical issue that I've been dealing with their customer service people for weeks.  But, really, I goofed around a little with it for fifteen minutes one time and that was it.  I think because it was hard to remember?  It didn't really fit in the theme so it was always on the mental back burner.

Or the idea that I would work through some worksheets for room design from a design book called The Meghan Method.  It just never really happened and I think it didn't happen because I never was fully convinced it should happen.  It was kind of a monthly goal I thought up last minute and wasn't very excited about in the first place.

Another problem, I think, was that I wasn't specific enough in my goals.  So saying "Make one change a week to the apartment" really threw me off my game because it required me to spend time deciding what that would be and then doing it.  Which, I know, does not require much.  But it was just enough inconvenience to make me delay it.

And on that note, I failed to do another thing that I identified from the start which is to set very clear time-limits.  Instead of saying "Oh, do this vague thing once a week" I needed to say something like "Spend Wednesday afternoon doing this very specific thing"

All said and done, I got a lot done, but very little of it felt as driven by my excitement to complete goals and more from basic necessity in the moment that I later tried to convince myself was something to check off a box.  Lessons learned (for now).  ;-)

Finally, I do want to say that I got a lot of good out of my daily goal this month - "pinning" and perusing design books and sights.  That's all actually going to come in very handy in upcoming months.  If anyone is interested, I reviewed a heck-load of design books on my goodreads account.

I'd like to revisit this theme again in the future - I think I'll need it.  But for now, it's time to announce the next theme, a mixture of something I naturally love to mess with and something that scares me:

"Health and Wealth"

I guess I'll reveal which is which as the month unfolds.

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